Almost everybody experienced jealousies, most of them are girls. (As girls` mind is more complicated compared to boys`)Mostly, jealousies are not beneficial. Many people suffered from jealousy. Sometimes, I wonder why there is jealousy in this world. It shouldn`t exists.
Just ignore the jealousies occurred between adults for once. If you`ve actually observed the growth of some children, you`ll realize that there is jealousy between children, too. Many children jealous when some adults divided their time or attention on another child, or I shall say that when some children are used to be the one who their parents or even other adults care of ,especially when a child is well-pampered. I don`t know that is that a natural phenomena or what but it seemed to be so natural.
Well, there are various types of jealousies. I`m pretty sure that most of the people experienced at least one of them. It can be in the aspect of relationship, academics, works, etc. When one is jealous, try not to continue to have the thought to be jealous, change the jealousies to a target. A positive thought. Set a target and work hard to reach your target. Eventually, jealousies disappeared.
Don`t be jealous when someone is doing his/her work better than you did. You will not be the winner in every aspect, as long as you did the best you could, you have nothing to be regretted of. Be happy with what you are but do not upset with yourself when you see that someone is better than you. Jealousies do not change things better. Sometimes, satisfy with who you are, but it doesn`t mean that you are good. Changes are needed when there should be, do not lose your original self just because of jealousies, unless it is beneficial. I hope that this is helpful, for all of you and also, for me. =)
Just ignore the jealousies occurred between adults for once. If you`ve actually observed the growth of some children, you`ll realize that there is jealousy between children, too. Many children jealous when some adults divided their time or attention on another child, or I shall say that when some children are used to be the one who their parents or even other adults care of ,especially when a child is well-pampered. I don`t know that is that a natural phenomena or what but it seemed to be so natural.
Well, there are various types of jealousies. I`m pretty sure that most of the people experienced at least one of them. It can be in the aspect of relationship, academics, works, etc. When one is jealous, try not to continue to have the thought to be jealous, change the jealousies to a target. A positive thought. Set a target and work hard to reach your target. Eventually, jealousies disappeared.
Don`t be jealous when someone is doing his/her work better than you did. You will not be the winner in every aspect, as long as you did the best you could, you have nothing to be regretted of. Be happy with what you are but do not upset with yourself when you see that someone is better than you. Jealousies do not change things better. Sometimes, satisfy with who you are, but it doesn`t mean that you are good. Changes are needed when there should be, do not lose your original self just because of jealousies, unless it is beneficial. I hope that this is helpful, for all of you and also, for me. =)
Like your positive outlook towards jealousy or should I call it preferences ... the action is the same, just a different word or a better word.
ReplyDeleteYes, in life when you have a choice, "Preferences" will kicks-in. The more choice you have the more preferences or jealousy .....
Most of the time you can't do anything to change. Just accept that we are living in a world with 6.76 billion people.
Just make yourself Happy and the happiness will radiate the people around you.
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