flashbacks

Just glanced through my previous posts that were typed years ago.How time has flown away at such a high speed.I've grown old! haha. Just decided to post something that is lengthy so that I can actually review it and smile at what I'd done years back when I was young.:) 

current desktop background for my laptop :D

yea, didn't really post anything much about my life, my college life. Besides the fact that there's a lot of assignments and tests, I actually had some time to spare for my blog, but I didn't, because I've abandoned it and wasted most of my time facebook-ing, tweeting, playing tetris battle, etc. Yea, after exam, I won't be spending so much time on facebook anymore. I shouldn't. :)

Yup, indeed, college life is pretty fun. People come and pass by your life. You get to converse with a lot of people, have a lot of "first attempts" , have a bit more of freedom, and a lotttttt of challenges. Yup, unavoidable ones. Today I had a phone chat with Shu Wei, a good friend of mine since childhood. We had a long chat, and I realized something. There're a lot of people out there, speculate and justify everything. They label everything, including you. For every single thing that you do, there'll be someone that you displeased. This is due to the fact that people, as humans, are imperfect. Usually, people who judge are imperfect, too. They have a lot of flaws too, they have feelings too, they do mistakes too. However, they're all dearly made by God.

God loves us, regardless of how imperfect we are. It's because we're who we are, we are being loved, treasured, and cared of, dearly by God, and other people who see us dearly. Each of us is special, unique and authentic. There'll be no one exactly like us and therefore, nobody, in fact, has the right to judge others, except God. We don't like being judged, and therefore, we shall never judge a person by his/her appearance, based on the 1st impression that you have on a person when you first or newly encounter him/her. 

#Lesson learnt : 

1. I shall stop judging others and stop being sad because of what others think about me, they aren't important, after all, because what really matters is how God thinks about me.:)
2. I should stop saying something bad about a person when he/she did something bad to me. I should stop complaining, murmuring and whining. This hurts God too much because He loves everyone on earth. :)